Tec,
You've missed another aspect of the hypocrisy of being an unbelieving elder - that the mere fact that they are an elder, helps keep other JWs enslaved to the WTS.
Elders are not silent partners - they would have a part in the meetings at least once a week, they have various duties in the KH, they are on committees, they counsel other JWs, and they TAKE THE LEAD IN THE WITNESSING WORK.
JWs look up to elders for help and confirmation that their faith in the JWs is justified. So even if they don't fully believe in the JW doctrine, a person in the position of elder is still upholding the JW religion. Such hypocrisy is amazing, and I honestly wonder how they sleep at night.
I left because I knew it wasn't the Truth, and it bothered my conscience to be part of that religion. So it's hard to see others who don't have the same values. And it's hard to respect them as people.
I could go on, but I'm not going to waste my breath on such hypocrites.